{"id":369,"date":"2016-10-27T16:45:58","date_gmt":"2016-10-27T16:45:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/planet27.eu\/?p=369"},"modified":"2016-12-09T19:14:56","modified_gmt":"2016-12-09T19:14:56","slug":"asjad","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/planet27.eu\/?p=369&lang=et","title":{"rendered":"7 asja, millest loobuda, et kasvatada last r\u00f5\u00f5msaks, iseseisvaks ja enesekindlaks"},"content":{"rendered":"

7 asja, millest loobuda, et kasvatada last r\u00f5\u00f5msaks, iseseisvaks ja enesekindlaks<\/h1>\n

Kui sead lastele k\u00f5rged ootused ja palju reegleid, v\u00f5id oluliselt v\u00e4hendada nende loovust ning enesehinnangut. Las neil julgelt kogeda, katsetada ning luba neil sealjuures eksida ning \u00f5ige pisut ka haiget saada. Sel moel kasvavad lastest terved, julged, loomingulised, t\u00f6\u00f6kad, enesekindlad ning \u00f5nnelikud inimesed.<\/p>\n

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1.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00c4ra \u00fctle neile ette, mida teha<\/p>\n

Lase neil ise leida probleemidele lahendused, vajadusel suuna. Uuringud n\u00e4itavad, et lapsed, kellele vanemad j\u00e4tavad rohkem ruumi ise kogeda ja otsustada, on tulevikus v\u00e4hem \u00e4revust, depressiooni ning l\u00e4bikukkumisetunnet<\/p>\n

2.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00c4ra sea lastele ebarealistikke ootusi.<\/p>\n

T\u00e4iuslikke inimesi pole olemas. K\u00f5igil meil on oma tugevused ja n\u00f5rkused. \u00c4ra laida neid, vaid aruta l\u00e4bi erinevad probleemid ja olukorrad koos lapsega.<\/p>\n

3.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00c4ra hoia lapsi vati sees<\/p>\n

Sa ju tahad, et nendest saaksid iseseisvad ja julged? Lase neil ise kogeda ja otsustada. N\u00e4ita neile oma eeskujuga, et maailm pole koht, mida tuleks karta.<\/p>\n

4.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00c4ra otsusta nende eest<\/p>\n

V\u00e4hemalt mitte liiga sageli. Sinu laps pole sina. Ta valib omale ise s\u00f5brad ning meelistegevusalad. Laps peab \u00f5ppima vastutama ise enda eest.<\/p>\n

5.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00c4ra pahanda, kui nad eksivad v\u00f5i l\u00e4bi kukuvad<\/p>\n

Kiida neid hoopis, et nad olid julged ja proovisid. Ainult need j\u00f5uavad elus kaugele, kes v\u00f5tavad riske, julgevad eksida ja l\u00e4bi kukkuda ega anna alla kuni j\u00f5uavad sihile. Kui laps on l\u00f6\u00f6dud, siis arutlege koos, mis l\u00e4ks valesti ning k\u00fcsi lapselt, mida v\u00f5iks j\u00e4rgmisel korral teisiti teha.<\/p>\n

6.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00c4ra kiida liialt oma laste ilu ega nutikust<\/p>\n

Kiida tehtud t\u00f6\u00f6d, pingutusi, \u00f5igeid valikuid.<\/p>\n

7.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00c4ra sea liialt palju reegleid<\/p>\n

Reeglid on kindlasti vajalikud, kuid liiga palju reegleid v\u00f5tavad lapselt v\u00f5imaluse loovate lahenduste leidmiseks ning \u00f5ppida vastutama iseenda eest.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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7 asja, millest loobuda, et kasvatada last r\u00f5\u00f5msaks, iseseisvaks ja enesekindlaks Kui sead lastele k\u00f5rged ootused ja palju reegleid, v\u00f5id oluliselt v\u00e4hendada nende loovust ning enesehinnangut. Las neil julgelt kogeda, katsetada ning luba neil sealjuures eksida ning \u00f5ige pisut ka haiget saada. Sel moel kasvavad lastest terved, julged, loomingulised, t\u00f6\u00f6kad, enesekindlad ning \u00f5nnelikud inimesed.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[11],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/planet27.eu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/369"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/planet27.eu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/planet27.eu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/planet27.eu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/planet27.eu\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=369"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/planet27.eu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/369\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":396,"href":"https:\/\/planet27.eu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/369\/revisions\/396"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/planet27.eu\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=369"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/planet27.eu\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=369"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/planet27.eu\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=369"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}